It was bound to happen eventually, I suppose. There was undoubtedly going to be a point at which My Wedding Vision clashed with that of the Bride’s.
Naturally I hoped it would be over some minor detail; a wrinkle we could iron right out. I certainly wasn’t anticipating a conflict of such EPIC PROPORTIONS. According to some recent alarming remarks from Her Brideliness, it appears as though we don’t exactly see eye-to-eye on what constitutes excellent dance music…
As every wedding guest knows, the dance music is vitally essential to establishing the vibe of the entire affair. As such, on our RSVP cards, we queried our guests as to “which song is most likely to get you on the dance floor.” Just to be clear, I know EXACTLY which songs get ME on the dance floor, I just thought it’d be a nice touch, gracious and “hostessy” to sprinkle a few other songs into the Wedding Mix. You know, songs other people like.
The response cards have been rolling in to the mailbox for the past few weeks. As expected, all the song suggestions prompted a conversation about our upcoming meeting with the DJ to construct the dance song list, which elicited this comment from Emilie:
“There are a few songs that I definitely don’t want played under any circumstances at the wedding!”
I nod my head vigorously in agreement, assuming that Mother and Daughter were on the exact same page about some of the ridiculous songs out there that we definitely don’t want the DJ to play. I could only imagine which songs from my personal list of “TOP 10 MOST ANNOYING DANCE SONGS EVER” we would jointly agree to ban.
Instead, she irreverently references music from my catalog of “TOP 10 BEST DANCE SONGS EVER WRITTEN.” She goes on to say: “I don’t know their titles exactly, but one is something about a Brick House and there’s another one where a white guy is encouraged to play funky music!”
Instantly alarmed, I looked immediately over at Jimmy, who is not necessarily invested in dance music, but thoroughly invested in me.
There simply aren’t words to express the Joy-Vacuum that I will experience if these songs are unjustly boycotted from our wedding. Most of them are more than just songs, they are the ANTHEMS of an entire generation.
For example, every woman my age, give or take 10 years either direction, genuinely believes in her heart-of-hearts, that SHE herself, is in fact the aforementioned BRICK HOUSE. Maybe she doesn’t exhibit this behavior in her everyday life, but you can sure tell she embraces it when she dances. When she is out on the floor, she is “36-24-36,” the “winning hand,” most especially when she “shakes it down, shakes it down now.”
Impervious to my reaction and the depths of my despair, Emilie turns to Father-of-the-Bride and twists the proverbial knife:
“I’ll never forget all those eternally long road trips when Mom would crank up the radio and torture us kids for hours with her dance moves from behind the steering wheel.”
Apparently, all those years I thought I was making sweet memories, I was actually torturing my own children. Plus, isn’t “torture” a strong word?
I have a week before we meet with the DJ. I’m currently thinking of a few ways to Bribe-the-Bride. This isn’t just about ME, I’m equally concerned about all my Brick House friends, who will be sorely disappointed if they don’t get to “lay down their boogie” next month.
4 thoughts on ““Play That Funky Music White Boy!” (Me & Wild Cherry)”
I was expecting maybe she would mix the Macarena. But brick house?? The Commodores?? Are you kidding me!! We must always “…play that funky music till ya die”
I start smiling before I Ever read the blog. Just seeing that I have a ” New, hot off the press” blog in my email, assures me that before I finish reading it, I will not only be smiling, but probably laughing out loud…!!!!!!
Love your blog!!!!!! Looking forward to the next and many more to follow.
Have a great day and good luck with the music details….
Whew, I was worried she’d boycotted “Dancing Queen” or “Last Dance.” Now, I’m wondering if we ruined those songs for our girls, too?! I’ll have to rethink my dancing sessions in front of Kelsey. Maybe if I try to enjoy Beyonce more, she’ll boycott some of those songs instead. 🙂
I, too, immediately thought of the Macarena or the Chicken Dance…which are likely to make half the guests get up and leave! So…I need to start playing insulting rap songs around my girls now?